Some time ago, i was there wondering..what's love? what the heck is love? what do you mean by the meaning that love is blind? Or, the true meaning of "It's so near, yet so far". Or even, the true meaning of heart pain, pain that can instantly make you go down goging on our knees, struggling to breakthough it.
[Song playing: Cyndi Wang Xin Ling - Dang Ni]
Quite recently, well, in actual fact, it was just last week{was it last 2 weeks ago..watever}, when my bunkmate, now one of my closer ring of buddies in my working area ask me for some advice... Well, it's the usual story.. i often some advice..he use it..it work.. hurrah for him..(crap)
For those bitchy morons who wanna know, i shall elaorabrate a bif on this. He was debating whether to ask the girl out..
well..not A girl..but THE girl..the one who he always has feelings for. He was sms-ing her.. painstakingly waiting for her reply... and she finally did reply...he was going so more..n whining to me how boring it was to be forever to be messaging her instead of going out with her.. I just gave him a simle enought advise..to take the chance to call her whenever the chance appears.blahblahblah.. he did it and was rewarded:P and even claim i some love-consultant..(sickO...irony man..the failure being called a love-consultant)..
anyway..that's another story.
so after tt..(hey..i know it's a long story) he told me more on this girl..how he really like her despite her inheritary illness she has. that he don't mind at all...etc....
that lead me to think instantly, just how great is these love, to make this happen.. to make someone being able to forsaken the mortal flaws, and just fall endless in the love of the person's soul, character, charistma, virtue......
just how little people there are out there that can be as ?????(argh..what's the word?it slip my mind.} as my friend..who love THE Girl for what who is she..not how she look..but fall in love with the real her, beyond her appearance.
This also lead me thinking to another issue. Just how many people really value love. Look around you, at your friends,mates,working parnters, so many people are out there saying i love you, you love me. just how many truely mean what they say?
are they lead by just primative lust? or are there lead the siatisfication of succesfully wooing a really gogerous girl out there, into saying she loves you. or simply just trying to go after who they think is mr or mrs right?
now leading back to my advise to my mate, to seize the chance and call THE girl at every chance...it's will work for him, it did.
the irony there is that..whatever advise i can give to people who approach me for aid, or to give them courage,
i just could never do that for me, i could never use the advice i gave them for myself..
the solutions to their problems are not for me..even if i am in the same boat as them...
at times, i ask the world, just who are you to think i am a love-consulant and why do u at times make people think i have a lot of girlfriends in the past, or am having one 1.
even my new godsis thinks tt i have a lot of girlfriends in the past. Impressive.
the more i think, the more confused i get...
and i Laugh at myself inside.
~`TIAN KONG, Yi Jiu Shi Na Mo De Lan~`
~`YUN, Hai Shi He Yi Wang Yi Yang, Na Mo Jie Bai~`
~`Ke Shi, Zai WO De Shi Jie Li,~`
~`Zhe Ge Shi Jie Shi Hui She De~`
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