A girlfriend? A wife? Or just some1 u just adore?

been hearing friends hu has been changing girlfriends like clothes..
so i alwasy ask myself one question when ever i'm interested in a girl,
or when my friends kept hassleing me to get a gf, and offering tonnes of reason why i am the right candiate to have a gf.
holy craP! [swearing is a way of life..accept it man]

so, what's the question i ever so often ponder about. in actual fact, i dun really know how i can phrase this question. to me, it's strictly more of a feeling type. let's see here...

i'm totally obsess with the taiwan girl pop group, S.H.E
particularly hebE!
okay. some may beg to differ tt either selina oR ella rocks more.
even in those local fan clubs, many claim to want them as wives, or ...blahblahblah.
some want them as girlfriends, believing they are ideal parnters in life later.

now, there's the issue of changng girlfriends like clothing...
monday 1, tues 1, weds 1.thurs 1.fri 1.sat 1. sunday rest.
they claim they r searching for the ideal girl, to be their lifelong parnters...
craP. imagine who's the 1 hurt in e end when they break up. it's usually our female counterparts.

y can't they just observe well before saying to some1, i like u, i love u.
pls marry me.. and all those hollow words when they meant a shit?
they just use the words to decieve some1, to get close to them.

if only, they could just observer the some1 they're eyeing earlier in the 1st place.
then, they can see if there are any flaws in the other parnter. or any worthy attributes emotionally.
then, if they finally think they are able to accpet the other's flaws, or find her as the RIGHT 1,
they can go ahead. just by doing this, we can really reduce many broken relationships...

however. apparently, no 1 is doing this, with e expection of a few fellows.
tt's the rational for seeing so many marriages failures going on!

so, i am sick and tired of seeing my friends round me who's broken up. divorced.
i sick and tired of this world at times.

now u buggers, will u understand Y i still single`?
cos i observing every1:P
thinking the pros n cons of a possible relationships. i dun really need ppl to interface in my choices, my preferences, or any crap reasons that u guys find, okay? just back off a little.

okay, they are cons in my principle.
cos the really ideal girl might not just wait for u to hit on her. she may even to gone b4 u made the choice.
watever the choice. it's purely up to u.

just recently i caught up with a friend.
she says tt once's she falls in love with a guy now. she's the likely type who will just marry the lucky chap in the end.
tt is, if he's Mr Right.
girls like this r really rare. or shall i say, they are on the verge of extinction.

sometimes..i really think..will i be the worthly 1, or will i be just another friend hu will just pass on in her life?

in actual fact, i'm 1 of those hu's prob stick with 1 gal:(

this is so disturing! feeling confuse is uncommon for me....
siGhs...

Lifes Really A Bed Of Thorns!


*~He's so lucky, He's a star~*
*~But he cry cry cries in his lonely heart~*
*~Thinking, if there's nothing missing in my life~*
*~Then why do these tears come at night?~*